MOTHERHOOD A GREAT FEELING

Motherhood, such a powerful word. Motherhood changes every aspect of one's life. Life changes suddenly when you become a mum. The way you view things changes. It's a good feeling to have someone who depends on you in almost everything.

In this journey, you can get overwhelmed but you should never quit. The benefits are more than the troubles. That awesome feeling when you get in the house and my son comes towards me (though he can not talk yet) is great. You get to know that your child recognizes you and only you as his mother.

You go to shopping to buy yourself some goodies. What happens? You come back home with goodies for your child. Motherhood is selfless. Motherhood is priceless. Mother hood is a feeling I can not explain.

Once you become a mother the word 'me time' doesn't make sense. Your child becomes your shadow. Everything you do is directed to him/her. You work hard to better his life. All you want is for child to have a better life than the one you lived.

Motherhood makes you become a lioness. No one can hurt your child and you stand there quiet. You attack, you are ready to die for your child. You get that mentality, 'Come to me first before getting to my child'.
I can go on and on but I choose to stop. More write ups  of this wonderful experience are on the way. Oh motherhood, you have made me a better person.

NOW IS THE TIME

Now is the time to tell someone that you love them.
Now is the time to tell someone that they are beautiful.
Now is the time to apologize if you have wronged someone.
Now is the time to hug,peck,kiss,talk to someone that you treasure.










Now is the moment to play with your kid.
Now is the moment to cook a meal with your mum,
Now is the moment to pour it out to your dad.
Now is the moment to have fun with your brother or sister.

A time will come and it will be too late to tell them that you love them.
A time will come that it will be too late to hug,peck or even have a chat with them.
A time will come when they will be to busy to do all this things with you.
A time will come when you loved one will go to be with the Lord.

Appreciate the time that you share with your loved ones.
Treasure the time you spend with with your loved ones.
If possible capture such moments, for photos tell a lot.
Show love to them that deserve none from you.

Do what you want to do now, for tomorrow maybe too late.

REMEMBER YOU

You matter, let no one convince you otherwise. Thus, before extending that love to someone else, you have to love you first.
It is said love your neighbor as you love yourself and do unto others as you would like them to do unto you. Thus,at the end of the day you have to know your worth first, so that you can extends that worth to others.

When was the last time you bought or did something for yourself? Or you are that person who is busy attending to other people's issues and needs that you forget yourself? Start with yourself so that you can extend  the same to others.


Take time to focus on 'YOU'. Self evaluate yourself and focus on making a better you. Once you are good with yourself start extending the same to others because by then you will have had a first hand experience on what you are doing.

I mean, you cant say that you are loving others where else you dont even know on how to love yourself.

At times go out of your way and focus on 'YOU'.


REMEMBER YOU.

APPRECIATION

That thing that you find so irritating or has no value in your life, to someone else is a treasure. Appreciate what the Lord has blessed you with, no matter how minute it is.

You maybe complaining that you are waking up so early to go to work or study, while another person is praying so hard to get that job or that education. You maybe complaining that your parents are over-protective. Remember, others were orphaned at a very tender age while other still dont even know who their parents are. You are always complaining of the huge bulk of laundry that you have to clean up every weekend. Keep in mind that others have no clothes to wear. I can go on and on comparing scenarios and then, it will hit you, how blessed you really are.

Instead of having a complaining heart,create in yourself a thankful heart. Each morning when you wake up thank the Lord that you are alive, in good health, have something to eat, you are healthy, you  can smile and talk. I mean, theres so much to be thankful for.

In short be appreciative of what you have, when you still have it. You never know when it will be plucked away from your life.

Compliment someone, say thank you  when someone offers you a hand and most importantly dont forget the word SORRY when you have failed someone.

BE APPRECIATIVE

A SMILE + HAPINESS= GOOD LIFE

Have you ever thought of the smiling faces you see everyday while going on with your day to day chores? Has it ever occurred to you that they maybe having problems which are much difficult than yours but they manage to smile anyway?
 
Hey, you don't own all the problems in the world. Manage to make happiness  your daily recipe to at-least cool down your "all  problem created world" scenario. Interact with people, share your story and you will see that your problem is quarter theirs, when they open up to you.

Life is how you view it.You can choose to view it half full or half empty.As for me i choose to view it as half full.
Even as you face your hardest times SMILE... Happiness is not brought by people surrounding you, it is brought by yourself. In every smiling face that you come across, there is an ugly story behind it, but that person chose to smile.
HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE, MAKE THAT CHOICE TODAY.